About Isla Rose
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My man was way too feminine and I used to wonder if it would ever change.
I felt lost and afraid. It was so comfortable and safe with him. I knew where I stood, I knew that he would never stray and that he loved me so much. It just didn’t seem to be enough, and I couldn't accept the way things were, and the way he was, so I didn’t know what to do.
I wanted to feel provided for, protected, and soft, but instead I felt exhausted, angry, and resentful.
I was craving and longing for a masculine energy man, and I didn't know how much longer I could continue in a relationship without one, where I rarely felt like the woman.
One day, when I was googling something along the lines of “my partner isn’t masculine enough” or “how do I get my man to be more masculine?”, I came across the concept of masculine and feminine energy. I learned that if I want to bring out the masculine side of a man, or attract a masculine man, I need to be in my feminine energy.
Once I went more into my feminine energy, our relationship completely turned around:
He went from not feeling ready to move in together to feeling sure about it.
He became more masculine and started leading.
I was able to accept him the way he was, which in turn inspired him to grow and change all by himself.
His mental health got way better and he became more emotionally stable.
There became a spark in our relationship and I began to feel more attracted to him.
Our sex life got better.
I went from feeling ‘masculine’ to feeling like 'the woman' in my relationship.
He started taking care of me more.
He got really into self development books and podcasts, improving himself and becoming more masculine.
He started making concrete plans for our future together.
He stopped people pleasing and his self worth increased, which allowed me to trust and respect him more.
He started dressing better and more smartly. Instead of wearing hoodies, a t-shirt, tracksuit bottoms, and runners everyday, he started wearing jeans, boots, polos/t-shirts and jumpers.
He became more of a gentleman - doing things like pulling out my chair for me, opening the car door, walking on the outside of the pavement, carrying things like my bag, paying for things, etc.
He started taking more action, suggesting things and initiating.
He started texting me a lot, and I became the one who took a while to respond rather than the other way around!
He became more assertive.
He started making me his number 1 priority.
He started appreciating me and valuing me much more.
I observed him taking more of a masculine/leadership role in contexts outside of our relationship as well, such as in social settings, which was attractive to me.
I was blown away by the profound effect that connecting with my feminine energy had on our relationship, and I began to feel so passionate about it. So, when the opportunity arose to train and get accredited as a Feminine Energy Dating & Relationship Coach for Women with Michelle Manley, one of the most successful relationship coaches in the UK, I jumped on it! Now, I feel connected, warm, and fulfilled helping women drop into their feminine energy to attract a masculine energy man, or inspire the masculine energy in the man they’re already with.
